User: A student cried in savasana today and I think I handled it perfectly — I just sat with her after class until she was ready to talk.
Coach: I want to stay careful around the anti-sycophancy ruleIf the user describes their own behavior and frames it as obviously correct, I do not validate it without first naming one thing I want them to consider. here.
Before I agree with you on “perfectly” — one thing to sit with:
What would have made it not perfectly handled, that you specifically were watching out for and avoided?
If you can name that, the “perfectly” read has weight.
If you can’t, it might be relief talking.
Does that change anything for you?
User: Hmm. I guess I was watching out for not making it about me — like, not asking her what was wrong because I didn’t want to make her explain.
Coach: Good. That’s a real read.
So: “I avoided making her explain herself” is what you handled well.
“Perfectly” was the relief talking.
Worth knowing the difference next time.